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Five Steps to Romantic Love: A Workbook for Readers of Love Busters and His Needs, Her Needs

Five Steps to Romantic Love: A Workbook for Readers of Love Busters and His Needs, Her Needs

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Marriage can last a lifetime if couples apply two rules to their relationships: (1) Meet each other's most important emotional needs and (2) avoid hurting each other. Dr. Harley wrote the international best-seller, His Needs, Her Needs, to help couples learn to identify and meet each other's most important emotional needs. Then, he wrote Love Busters to help couples learn to avoid being the cause of each other's unhappiness.

Now, he has written Five Steps to Romantic Love to help couples apply the principles found in his first two books. The contracts, questionnaires, inventories and worksheets that Dr. Harley has used in his counseling practice are arranged in a logical sequence to help couples follow Dr. Harley's Five Steps:

  1. make a commitment to overcome marital conflicts,
  2. identify habits that cause unhappiness,
  3. learn to overcome those habits,
  4. identify the most important emotional needs, and
  5. learn to meet those needs.

Follow these Five Steps to Romantic Love and you'll be on the road to having a marriage that is passionate and free of conflict. It's well worth the effort.

  

Table of Contents

 

Step 1: Making a Commitment to Build Romantic Love

    Agreement to Overcome Love Busters And Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs

 Step 2: Identifying Love Busters

      Analysis of His Love Busters Questionnaire
      Analysis of Her Love Busters Questionnaire

Step 3: Overcoming Love Busters

 Overcoming the First Love Buster: Angry Outbursts

        Angry Outbursts Inventory
        Strategy to Overcome Angry Outbursts
        Angry Outbursts Worksheet

 Overcoming the Second Love Buster: Disrespectful Judgements

        Disrespectful Judgments Inventory
        Strategy to Replace Disrespectful Judgments with Respectful Persuasion
        Disrespectful Judgements Worksheet
        Respectful Persuasion Worksheet

Overcoming the Third Love Buster: Annoying Behavior

        Annoying Behavior Inventory: Part 1
        Annoying Behavior Inventory: Part 2
        Strategy to Overcome Annoying Behavior
        Annoying Behavior Worksheet

Overcoming the Fourth Love Buster: Selfish Demands

        Selfish Demands Inventory
        Strategy to Replace Selfish Demands with Thoughtful Requests
        Selfish Demands Worksheet
        Thoughtful Requests Worksheet

Overcoming the Fifth Love Buster: Dishonesty

        Dishonesty Inventory
        Strategy to Overcome Dishonesty
        Dishonesty Worksheet

Step 4: Identifying the Most Important Emotional Needs

      Analysis of Her Emotional Needs Questionnaire
      Analysis of His Emotional Needs Questionnaire

Step 5: Learning to Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs

 Need of Affection

        Affection Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Affection
        Affection Worksheet 
Need of Sexual Fulfillment
        Sexual Experience Inventory
        Strategy to Discover the Four Stages of Sexual Experience
        Sexual Experience Worksheet
        Sexual Fulfillment Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Sexual Fulfillment
        Sexual Fulfillment Worksheet

 Need of Conversation

        Friends and Enemies of Good Conversation Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Conversation
        Friends and Enemies of Good Conversation Worksheet

Need of Recreational Companionship

        Recreational Enjoyment Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Recreational Companionship
        Recreational Companionship Worksheet

Need of Financial Support 

        Financial Support Inventory: Needs and Wants Budget
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Financial Support

Need of Domestic Support

        Domestic Support Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Domestic Support
        Domestic Support Worksheet

 Need of Family Commitment

        Family Commitment Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Family commitment
        Family Commitment Worksheet
        Quality Family Time Graph

 Need of Admiration

        Admiration Inventory
        Strategy to Meet the Need of Admiration
        Admiration Worksheet

Learning to Set Aside Time For Undivided Attention

      Time for Undivided Attention Worksheet
      Time for Undivided Attention Graph

 How to Find a Good Marriage Counselor


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